So, our little family has been busy the past month! We went to our first church service in TC and enjoyed ourselves. Matt really liked it which was a huge surprise. Avalyn liked the singing, but wanted to continue during the quiet times. What can you do? The next service is Sunday and we're looking forward to it.
Keith got an awesome report from parent-teacher conferences. He has all A's and a B+ and is one of the better listeners in class. Now if he could only apply the listening skills at home, too, we'd be set! He's still stealing from me though, and I don't know what else to do. I've taken away his toys, put him in the corner, taken his piggy bank and even threatened to take his Christmas presents back... nothing is working though. He only takes what I leave sitting on the counter (like quarters and other shiny coins... he's a raccoon I swear! lol!) so it's not as if he's taking a lot. I still believe that stealing is stealing and no matter how little it is, it's wrong. Especially when I tell him if he wants something, all he has to do is ask. He'll get it through his head one day, hopefully...
Avalyn is eating solid food now. I'm giving her two feedings a day and I'm going to up it to three in a week or so. She's SO big now! She fits into 12 month clothing. I got her a 3-6 month dress for her pictures that are happening in a couple days, but dresses fit differently. Here's hoping the place take a good portrait! I'm so excited to see the difference from her 3 month to 6 month photos. She has also started laughing, a really belly laugh, but only occasionally. It's so cute! I had a great video of it, but my camera decided to crap out and erase it. I bought a program that found all of the images and the video, but the audio and the video are separate files. Unfortunately the video is in a format that windows doesn't recognize so I have to find a program that will convert it so I can use my video editor to add the sound back. What a mess!
In other news, about three weeks ago Avalyn threw up all over our bed at 1:00 AM. Awesome right? Well we had a mattress cover on that was supposed to keep anything from contaminating the mattress. Well, it didn't do its job. I called Art Van and someone came out to inspect it and now we are getting a new mattress, all we have to pay is the delivery charge. They'll be bringing the new mattress tomorrow. Also, tomorrow I plan on bringing up the Christmas things and getting the house decked out for the holiday season.
Keith has soooooo many presents it's insane. I don't know where he's going to put them. We got Avalyn a few developmental toys and a glow-worm. I found the perfect gifts for Matt but he says I'm hard to shop for. I don't know why. I told him I wanted an ipod charging station and a necklace I saw at Things Remembered that has the kids birth stones in it. He wants to get me more than that... I don't understand him. I think that those two things are too much! He STILL doesn't understand that I don't care about 'things' and that I just want to spend the day with him and the kids. And that I want the kids (mainly Keith) to have a great Christmas. I told him that if he cleaned the house for me while I was sleeping THAT would be the greatest Christmas present EVER. But he doesn't think so. Are all men this weird, or is it just mine?
Tuesday, November 30, 2010
Tuesday, November 16, 2010
Ah November...
When Keith was in school two weeks ago Avalyn and I went on a little trip to the cottage. Crazy right? It is November in northern Michigan after all. We had a wind storm so I wanted to make sure the cottage made it through all right.
The good news? The cottage is a-okay!
The bad news? There are branches and debris everywhere! Also, the birch tree that was by the steps heading down to the lake fell over. Just missed the cottage. Phew!
After that we went back home, and I found that Avalyn's new car seat arrived! Hooray! It's been a busy month so far, but that's okay by me!
The lake!
Mommy and Avalyn!
Tree!
New car seat! Cowmooflage!
Five days, five weeks, five months... doubt I'll do five years like this! ;)
Avalyn's photoshoot with mommy. :)
The good news? The cottage is a-okay!
The bad news? There are branches and debris everywhere! Also, the birch tree that was by the steps heading down to the lake fell over. Just missed the cottage. Phew!
After that we went back home, and I found that Avalyn's new car seat arrived! Hooray! It's been a busy month so far, but that's okay by me!
The lake!
Mommy and Avalyn!
Tree!
New car seat! Cowmooflage!
Five days, five weeks, five months... doubt I'll do five years like this! ;)
Avalyn's photoshoot with mommy. :)
Saturday, October 30, 2010
Sleep Issues
No, Avalyn is not having any problems sleeping. She's wonderful!
However, I need to vent about some of the insanity I've read on the web lately. I do not believe in letting a baby "cry-it-out" not one bit. As far as I'm concerned a baby cries because they need something. They don't cry to manipulate or control their parents. They're babies for crying out loud! They could be hungry, need a diaper change, be uncomfortable or just need comfort etc.
It kills me to read about parents doing this to their child(ren). Plus, there are still doctors out there who advocate it. They say that the baby learns to accept that crying won't get them what they want. What?! That's how a baby communicates! Take that away and what do they have?
In reality the baby realizes that their parents aren't coming and they can't count on them. The baby shuts down! Isn't that heartbreaking? Babies don't understand that at night it's time to sleep and parents don't want to get up. They don't understand why mom and dad take care of their every need during the day but won't help them at night. It makes me want to cry!
I was told that I just haven't been at my wits end yet so I don't know. Whatever, crazy-person-who-has-no-idea-what-my-life-is-like, I have been at my wits end and I have put Avalyn in her cradle and walked away for a minute or two to catch my breath. But it was only a minute or two. I can't let her cry by herself longer than that. It kills me. And I think it's total bull that "it hurts the parents more than the baby." I can hear my daughter when she cries and she's hurting (not physically) and she needs me.
Newsflash folks: Babies need their caregivers! Yes, it's hard to give and give and give and lose sleep and not be able to do your own thing... but when that child smiles at you... it's so worth it!
Who cares how you get your baby to sleep, either? Why do they have to "learn to do it themselves" when they can't even sit up on their own? Avalyn falls asleep after nursing. Sometimes she falls asleep after playing. Sometimes she wants to walk around the house. And then there are the few days she falls asleep on her own. Even fewer days she wants me to lay down next to her. Do I fall asleep the same way every night? No. Sometimes I'm so tired I just crash. Other times I watch tv, or play sudoku, or read... why does a baby have to do the SAME thing every night? They're human too, right?
Okay, I'm done venting. And I hear Avalyn waking up. I'm going to see what she needs. Because she does need something. :)
However, I need to vent about some of the insanity I've read on the web lately. I do not believe in letting a baby "cry-it-out" not one bit. As far as I'm concerned a baby cries because they need something. They don't cry to manipulate or control their parents. They're babies for crying out loud! They could be hungry, need a diaper change, be uncomfortable or just need comfort etc.
It kills me to read about parents doing this to their child(ren). Plus, there are still doctors out there who advocate it. They say that the baby learns to accept that crying won't get them what they want. What?! That's how a baby communicates! Take that away and what do they have?
In reality the baby realizes that their parents aren't coming and they can't count on them. The baby shuts down! Isn't that heartbreaking? Babies don't understand that at night it's time to sleep and parents don't want to get up. They don't understand why mom and dad take care of their every need during the day but won't help them at night. It makes me want to cry!
I was told that I just haven't been at my wits end yet so I don't know. Whatever, crazy-person-who-has-no-idea-what-my-life-is-like, I have been at my wits end and I have put Avalyn in her cradle and walked away for a minute or two to catch my breath. But it was only a minute or two. I can't let her cry by herself longer than that. It kills me. And I think it's total bull that "it hurts the parents more than the baby." I can hear my daughter when she cries and she's hurting (not physically) and she needs me.
Newsflash folks: Babies need their caregivers! Yes, it's hard to give and give and give and lose sleep and not be able to do your own thing... but when that child smiles at you... it's so worth it!
Who cares how you get your baby to sleep, either? Why do they have to "learn to do it themselves" when they can't even sit up on their own? Avalyn falls asleep after nursing. Sometimes she falls asleep after playing. Sometimes she wants to walk around the house. And then there are the few days she falls asleep on her own. Even fewer days she wants me to lay down next to her. Do I fall asleep the same way every night? No. Sometimes I'm so tired I just crash. Other times I watch tv, or play sudoku, or read... why does a baby have to do the SAME thing every night? They're human too, right?
Okay, I'm done venting. And I hear Avalyn waking up. I'm going to see what she needs. Because she does need something. :)
Friday, October 22, 2010
Costume is Finished!!
Okay so after a lot of hand sewing and swearing at my sewing machine I am finished!
I made Avalyn's first Halloween costume. And it's reversible so she can wear it again when we go outside. :)
The reversible jacket!
The pants are reversible, too.
Hat!
The ensemble!
My little cow!
I made Avalyn's first Halloween costume. And it's reversible so she can wear it again when we go outside. :)
The reversible jacket!
The pants are reversible, too.
Hat!
The ensemble!
My little cow!
Saturday, October 16, 2010
Church
This date last year was when we had a scare (I was six weeks pregnant) and I had to go to the emergency room. What could have been a sad/scary day turned out great! I got to see my baby girl (didn't know that yet) for the first time and watch the fast flutter of her heart. Amazing!
While waiting in the ER a Baptist minister, was there for someone in his congregation who was ill or hurt (I don't know the whole story), walked over to us and told us he knew they were there for me. I must have had a funny look on my face or something because he took my hand and told me everything would be okay and he would pray for us. I really wish I knew his name, or the location of his church, because he was such a nice man who gave me so much peace that night and I would love to visit his church.
Matt and I haven't found a church to join up here yet (because I am very picky) and it's starting to be a problem. I want to get Avalyn baptized and I would like to take Keith to church. I have never been overly religious and believe that if I lead a good life and listen to the Lord's teachings and follow them the best I can, then I am doing better than some. But lately Keith has been starting to read the Bible and is asking questions that I don't feel comfortable answering, so I think it's time to find a church.
I would also like to start to get to know people up here. We've lived here for three years and haven't made many friends that we see outside of work and it's hard to be so isolated.
We do have a few obstacles in the way... Getting up early (or going to bed late in Matt's case) will be very difficult with Avalyn, she is not an early morning baby. Also, Matt and I come from different denominations. I grew up in the UCC and Matt as a Lutheran. Also apparently he's turned off to churches entirely because of past issues, which I understand completely! So finding a place that suits us will be hard.
What we want to find in a church:
Open mindedness
Someplace small
A place that is not manipulative
A place with a nursery
Friendly people
A place that welcomes LGBT people - With all of these horrible stories in the news I feel like I need to be in a place that does not look down on these people but welcome them with open arms. I will NOT willingly be part of a place that believes in oppression. >:(
Okay, I'm off to find a church! Wish me luck!!!
:::EDIT:::
I think we may have found a church up here to be a part of! They are affiliated with the UCC and seem really open minded. They only meet monthly in the evening (we don't have to get up early and try to get both kids ready) so it will fit in perfectly with our lifestyle! The next time they meet is November 7, so we are going to go check them out. I've contacted their communications lady and she seems very nice and welcoming. I'm really looking forward to this! :)
The Potter's House UCC
While waiting in the ER a Baptist minister, was there for someone in his congregation who was ill or hurt (I don't know the whole story), walked over to us and told us he knew they were there for me. I must have had a funny look on my face or something because he took my hand and told me everything would be okay and he would pray for us. I really wish I knew his name, or the location of his church, because he was such a nice man who gave me so much peace that night and I would love to visit his church.
Matt and I haven't found a church to join up here yet (because I am very picky) and it's starting to be a problem. I want to get Avalyn baptized and I would like to take Keith to church. I have never been overly religious and believe that if I lead a good life and listen to the Lord's teachings and follow them the best I can, then I am doing better than some. But lately Keith has been starting to read the Bible and is asking questions that I don't feel comfortable answering, so I think it's time to find a church.
I would also like to start to get to know people up here. We've lived here for three years and haven't made many friends that we see outside of work and it's hard to be so isolated.
We do have a few obstacles in the way... Getting up early (or going to bed late in Matt's case) will be very difficult with Avalyn, she is not an early morning baby. Also, Matt and I come from different denominations. I grew up in the UCC and Matt as a Lutheran. Also apparently he's turned off to churches entirely because of past issues, which I understand completely! So finding a place that suits us will be hard.
What we want to find in a church:
Open mindedness
Someplace small
A place that is not manipulative
A place with a nursery
Friendly people
A place that welcomes LGBT people - With all of these horrible stories in the news I feel like I need to be in a place that does not look down on these people but welcome them with open arms. I will NOT willingly be part of a place that believes in oppression. >:(
Okay, I'm off to find a church! Wish me luck!!!
:::EDIT:::
I think we may have found a church up here to be a part of! They are affiliated with the UCC and seem really open minded. They only meet monthly in the evening (we don't have to get up early and try to get both kids ready) so it will fit in perfectly with our lifestyle! The next time they meet is November 7, so we are going to go check them out. I've contacted their communications lady and she seems very nice and welcoming. I'm really looking forward to this! :)
The Potter's House UCC
Thursday, October 7, 2010
Better Today
Started today off fresh (I'm not counting the awful headache, boo!) and decided that Avalyn will be a cow! I will be making the replacement. This way she won't be dressed like every other cow. She will be unique. Hooray! Onward to the fabric store!
Wednesday, October 6, 2010
Way Bummed...
Last year (the day after Halloween) Matt and I got this ADORABLE cow costume for Avalyn's first Halloween. Well, come to find out, It's missing parts!
I thought I was being so smart getting a costume early (and on sale no less!!) but apparently not. Now I need to find her a different costume in a short period of time, because I want her first Halloween to be special.
There's so much out there but I can't seem to find the good enough option because my heart was set on her being a cow. I have been dreaming about dressing my baby as a cow for her first Halloween since I've wanted a baby, so this is proving to be harder than I thought it would be.
I'm so bummed! What a ridiculous thing to be bummed about, but here I sit, writing a blog entry because I have no one else to talk to about it. :'( I'm so frustrated!
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